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Bondage and SM play can be the most
erotic and exciting pleasures you’ve
ever experienced, but it is, by its
very nature, risky at the least,
dangerous at most.
Here are a few safety tips to help
your journey into BDSM become as hot
as are the fantasies in your head,
without harming your or someone
else’s body.
LEARN
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Buy books and read. Jay
Wiseman’s SM 101 is a
great start. If you want to
learn about rope bondage, pick
up a copy of Midori’s The
Seductive Art of Japanese
Bondage. If you want to try
CBT (Cock and Ball Torture), get
a copy of Hardy Haberman’s Family Jewels.
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Go to local SM workshops. (See
list below.)
TIPS
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Always talk to your partner
first.
Find limits, likes and dislikes.
Choose safe words or signals so
the bottom can tell the Top when
there’s a problem.
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Flogging
– Avoid the kidneys and dangling
pierced jewelry. Begin lightly,
build up the intensity, and
finish the flogging lightly.
From Mild to Wild, and back to
Mild again. Avoid wrapping.
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Rope Bondage
– Always have a pair or two
safety scissors on hand to
quickly cut the rope in an
emergency. These are the heavy
angled scissors used in doctor
offices. Regularly monitor skin
color to be sure circulation
isn’t restricted.
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Suspension
– This more advanced bondage
play is a heady experience for
both, but is full of dangers and
should not be tried without
plenty of training by an
experienced suspension artist.
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CBT
– Cock and Ball ‘Torture’ may be
to some men agony, and to many
others the most exquisite
pleasure imaginable. It’s
amazing what can be done with
male genitals without injury!
But, like suspension play, CBT
is best learned from experienced
hands.
RESOURCES
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